The big word "MARRIAGE"
What really is marriage? It is the union of two opposite sex inlove,coming out openly to announce themselves as a couple. Most people today mistake marriage as a place of total seriousness surrounded by strict rules and monitoring spirit LOL.
The Man proposed for a reason and the Woman accepted his proposal for her own reason. The major cause of marital problems is CHANGE. Although change is constant in life but a negative change can cause problems that are beyond words. Some types of changes includes;
1. Change in physical appearance.
2. Change in verbal attitude
3. Change in temperament as so on
To the Ladies-> Before he proposed you must have being trying your best to get more of his attention by wearing neat,sexy and moderate outfits, making sure your hair is properly done, you cook,clean and perform all wifely duties, good attitude towards people, good poise and carriage and most of all you watch your weight. Why then do you change when your now his legal wife? Dropping one or more of this good attitude makes the Man question his motives of getting married to you. Then he goes out looking for what he misses but the good ones would remind his wife of how she behaves before the marriage.
Moreso a Man is the head of the house and even when he is not performing his duties as the bread winner,he still deserves his respect. Even in the lion kingdom,the lioness goes hunting and the lion waits in his pride for the hunt to be brought to him. This does not mean the lion is lazy,he hunts when there is need too. A wife should not insult her husband most especially when there is no income to sustain the family. Thats why there are two of you in the family. You must have to work together in other to make things work..............to be continued

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