How to survive a break up

1.Do not cry in front of him - you don’t want to look like a basket case and make him think that he’s making the right decision. Hug him goodbye, wish him luck with life, and leave with pride. If you have good self esteem, you know that it is his loss.

2.Get in the car and let out a good scream when you’re at least far away from his house . Blast angry, loud music, and let it out.

Drive to your best friend’s house for a shoulder to cry on . They will be able to make you laugh and say all the right things to make you feel better,such as: You’re too sweet, pretty, nice, popular, and smart for him.

3.Cry . Have a long, good cry.

4.Box up all the things that he gave you, or that remind you of him . Put them in a box for a time when you’re less emotional and want to look back
at them. Do not act hastily and throw out or burn things, you may want
them in the future.Print out all emails he sent you; gather up all letters he wrote you. Then,delete the emails and give the paper copies to a friend to keep in a safe place. This will prevent you from going back and obsessing over the emails,but they will still be there if you want them in the future.

5.Cut off all contact with him for at least a month; this will help the healing process because you won’t be talking to him all the time .
If you see him regularly at work or school, always look good . Don’t look
like you’re trying, but always look good so that he regrets his decision.
When he does come back around, (because you’re too great of a girl for
him to not come back), make him work for your attention . Even though you may still like him, make him think that he has to win you back, and that
you have other prospects out there waiting for you.

6.Stay busy. If you’re constantly doing something, you will have less time to think about him. This will also make you look more appealing to him because you’re busy. Guys always want what they can’t have.

7.Do not call him! Never, under no circumstances. This will make you look desperate to have him back. YOU DO NOT WANT THIS!

8.Girls are hormonal. We tend to make a big deal out of things we shouldn't. In a lot of cases it's not that bad, all you'll need is a little time. Try talking to people who you can trust. Don't hide in the closet and wait for everything to be over! Relax. If he truly is the love of your life, things will work out for the best in the end.

9.Don't always be smiling. Constantly smiling to falsify your happiness can be creepy, and doesn't fool them.

10.You can always stay friends with your ex-boyfriend even though it seems to be unlikely, so don't stress about never seeing him again.

And thats how to get over a painul breakup . Feel free to comment if you have some suggestions.